{"id":632814,"date":"2010-01-17T02:41:20","date_gmt":"2010-01-17T07:41:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kempton.wordpress.com\/?p=9097"},"modified":"2010-01-17T02:41:20","modified_gmt":"2010-01-17T07:41:20","slug":"how-to-get-someone-you-don%e2%80%99t-know-to-help-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/632814","title":{"rendered":"How to get someone you don\u2019t know to help you?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='snap_preview'><\/p>\n<p>An insightful post &#8220;<strong><a title=\"http:\/\/blogs.forrester.com\/groundswell\/2010\/01\/how-to-get-someone-you-dont-know-to-help-you-hint-send-a-personal-email.html\" href=\"http:\/\/blogs.forrester.com\/groundswell\/2010\/01\/how-to-get-someone-you-dont-know-to-help-you-hint-send-a-personal-email.html\" >How to get someone you don&#8217;t know to help you. Hint: send a personal email<\/a><\/strong>&#8220;. Very much agree. It is not that difficult to be nice and ask for help in the right way. An excerpt from\u00a0<a title=\"http:\/\/blogs.forrester.com\/groundswell\/2010\/01\/how-to-get-someone-you-dont-know-to-help-you-hint-send-a-personal-email.html\" href=\"http:\/\/blogs.forrester.com\/groundswell\/2010\/01\/how-to-get-someone-you-dont-know-to-help-you-hint-send-a-personal-email.html\" >Josh&#8217;s post<\/a> here (emphasis added),<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>I ask many people I don&#8217;t know to help me &#8212; to share numbers, interviews, etc. Often they say yes. I am grateful.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Many people who don&#8217;t know me ask me for help. Often I say yes. But many of those requests are presented so poorly they make me cringe.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Basically, if you want my help, take a few moments to know who I am. If you send me what is clearly a mass email asking for help, forget it. There is a right and wrong way to do this.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>This post is about the right way.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>As a habit, I try to leave comments on other people&#8217;s blogs and help them when it is within my abilities and the time I have. Same for helping people who leave comments on my blog like this <a title=\"http:\/\/kempton.wordpress.com\/2009\/10\/28\/snow-leopard-chinese-input-system-demo\/#comment-44053\" href=\"http:\/\/kempton.wordpress.com\/2009\/10\/28\/snow-leopard-chinese-input-system-demo\/#comment-44053\" >recent question<\/a> that I tried to help.<\/p>\n<p>Posted in Business, insightful, Internet, social media, social network  <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/gocomments\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/comments\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\" \/><\/a> <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/godelicious\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/delicious\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\" \/><\/a> <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/gostumble\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/stumble\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\" \/><\/a> <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/godigg\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/digg\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\" \/><\/a> <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/goreddit\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/reddit\/kempton.wordpress.com\/9097\/\" \/><\/a> <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stats.wordpress.com\/b.gif?w=780\" \/><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An insightful post &#8220;How to get someone you don&#8217;t know to help you. Hint: send a personal email&#8220;. Very much agree. It is not that difficult to be nice and ask for help in the right way. An excerpt from\u00a0Josh&#8217;s post here (emphasis added), I ask many people I don&#8217;t know to help me &#8212; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":780,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2340,4821],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-632814","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-internet","category-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9NivD-2ECG","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/632814","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/780"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=632814"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/632814\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=632814"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=632814"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=632814"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}