{"id":617259,"date":"2009-12-31T02:35:00","date_gmt":"2009-12-31T07:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thatsfit.ca\/2009\/12\/31\/how-to-deal-with-an-overly-critical-partner\/"},"modified":"2009-12-31T02:35:00","modified_gmt":"2009-12-31T07:35:00","slug":"how-to-deal-with-an-overly-critical-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/617259","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal With An Overly Critical Partner"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Filed under: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thatsfit.ca\/category\/love-and-relationships\/\" rel=\"tag\">Love &amp; Relationships<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thatsfit.ca\/category\/advice\/\" rel=\"tag\">Advice<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" hspace=\"4\" vspace=\"4\" border=\"0\" align=\"left\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.blogcdn.com\/www.thatsfit.ca\/media\/2009\/12\/critical.jpg?w=780\" alt=\"\" \/><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Are you involved with a partner who is always second-guessing you or making you feel like you&#8217;re never good enough? <\/span><a  style=\"font-weight: bold;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.ninawbrown.com\/\">Dr. Nina W. Brown<\/a><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">, author of <\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;\">Coping with Infuriating, Mean, Critical People<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">, explains how overly critical partners can poison a relationship and offers some tips on how to deal with it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Q: What kind of impact does a critical personality have on their partner and on the relationship?<\/p>\n<p><\/span>A: Overly critical partners do not perceive themselves as overly critical, or even sometimes as being critical. They are seeking perfection, and unconsciously assume that others also have a desire and need to be perfect. They can be convinced on a deep level that their way is the only &#8220;right&#8221; way, and that others should recognize this and comply.<br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><br \/>\n<\/span>Relationships can suffer when one partner is overly critical as the other partner can never be or act in a way that eliminates most of the criticism. And all criticism can never be eliminated because perfection is never achieved.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tips for dealing with a critical partner, after the jump&#8230;<\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thatsfit.ca\/2009\/12\/31\/how-to-deal-with-an-overly-critical-partner\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue reading <em>How to Deal With An Overly Critical Partner<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thatsfit.ca\/2009\/12\/31\/how-to-deal-with-an-overly-critical-partner\/\" rel=\"bookmark\" title=\"Permanent link to this entry\">Permalink<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thatsfit.ca\/forward\/19295380\/\" title=\"Send this entry to a friend via email\">Email this<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thatsfit.ca\/2009\/12\/31\/how-to-deal-with-an-overly-critical-partner\/#comments\" title=\"View reader comments on this entry\">Comments<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Filed under: Love &amp; Relationships, Advice Are you involved with a partner who is always second-guessing you or making you feel like you&#8217;re never good enough? Dr. Nina W. Brown, author of Coping with Infuriating, Mean, Critical People, explains how overly critical partners can poison a relationship and offers some tips on how to deal [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":288,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4821],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-617259","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9NivD-2AzN","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/617259","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/288"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=617259"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/617259\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=617259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=617259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.com\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=617259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}